Many of you can be Healers and Teachers, but you must learn about metaphysics and learn to control your Mind and your Self. Look to Buddha for mind training exercises.
Until you control your Self and start living spiritually aware, you cannot progress. You must be aware of your thoughts at every hour and dismiss negativity and bring in the Higher Self.
Make the decision not to worry over your personal issues. They only seem enormous in your small mind. They are a part of your illusion, only sent to test you. You will find the good things come from the changes in your life and you will look back and smile and say, "It wasn't such a bad thing after all."
Souls build their problems up out of all proportion. Each is a test. Learn to deal with them using your Higher Soul, not your Self, knowing it is for your betterment and you will not suffer so much.